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Are you struggling with the ever-evolving world of modern dating? Feeling stuck with all the apps? Need to update your profile and photos but don’t know where to start? Gain insight into the challenges and changes in dating and relationships today from a top relationship coach Dovie Gena.

In the realm of love and relationships, the dating landscape has shifted significantly over the past decade. The advent of dating apps, coupled with the impact of the #MeToo movement, has ushered in a new era with its own set of norms and expectations for American singles. A recent survey conducted by the Pew Research Center sheds light on the evolving dynamics of dating, revealing both challenges and changes that shape the experiences of those seeking companionship.

According to the survey, 15% of U.S. adults are currently single and on the lookout for either a committed relationship or casual dates. Strikingly, a majority of them express dissatisfaction with their dating lives. Whoa! Did you know I teach people how to date? The study, conducted in October 2019, captures a pre-pandemic snapshot, highlighting trends that have likely been further influenced by the unprecedented events of the past years.

One key finding is the perception that dating has become more challenging, with 47% of Americans asserting that it is harder today than it was a decade ago. Women, in particular, are twice as likely as men to feel that dating has become riskier. Increased risks, both physical and in terms of potential deception, contribute to this sentiment, with 21% citing it as a primary reason. What do you feel the risks are with using a dating app to find love and connection?

Technology emerges as a double-edged sword in the dating arena. While 41% believe that technology has made dating easier, others argue that it has made the process more impersonal (10%) and contributed to a more casual dating culture (9%). The changing societal expectations, moral values, and gender roles also play a role in shaping perceptions of modern dating.

The survey delves into the experiences of daters, revealing that two-thirds feel their dating lives are not going well. Finding like-minded individuals poses a significant challenge, with 75% reporting difficulty in locating compatible partners. Factors such as the nature of the relationship sought, approachability, and meeting expectations contribute to this struggle. Its also important to consider how well you know yourself. What do you really want out of life? Out of partner? Have you taken the time to truly discover these things about yourself?

The #MeToo movement has left its imprint on the modern dating dating landscape, with 57% of women and 35% of men reporting some form of harassing behavior from a date. The movement has prompted 65% of Americans to believe that it has made interactions on dates more challenging for men. Similarly, 43% feel it has complicated matters for women. The thing is, it’s tough for both guys and gals.

Acceptance of certain relationship practices varies widely. While premarital sex is generally deemed acceptable by 65% of adults, open relationships face greater scrutiny, with 48% considering them rarely or never acceptable. Attitudes towards open relationships is shifting, but whatever your preferences, let’s ensure you have strong boundaries and know how to honor them before and during your relationship(s) to strengthen the likelihood of those relationships succeeding. Additionally, age differences significantly influence perceptions of practices such as sharing explicit images, with younger adults being more accepting.

Deal breakers in relationships extend beyond personal traits to political affiliations, finances, and monogamy. For instance, distance and debt made top the list of reasons why some singles would hesitate to consider a potential partner. Open and honest dialog is the key here, regardless of your personal views. If you can learn the skills to be vulnerable with another person about what makes you unique, own you toxic traits and share the ‘why’ behind your beliefs safely, you can open a wider net to meeting and dating the “right” person for you.

As the dating landscape continues to evolve, the challenges and changes highlighted by the Pew Research Center survey underscore the need for open dialogue, understanding, and adaptation in the pursuit of meaningful connections. Check out this article in detail and join me for a coaching session to explore more data & stats to help define your dating & love life.