You’ve probably been wondering if there’s someone local, someone who gets it, who can help you feel safe in your body again. Not a clinic. Not another counselor telling you to just “journal more.” While journaling can be helpful for some, it’s not a complete solution. But someone who actually knows how to guide you back into your own sensuality and confidence.
So let’s answer the question right away. Yes, there is a female sex coach in Castle Rock, and the approach here may feel very different from anything you’ve experienced before.
Hi! I’m Dovie Gena, a Board Certified Sexologist, advanced Somatic Trauma & Relationship Coach, and Certified EMDR Guide. I work with women in Castle Rock, Denver, and surrounding areas who are ready to get out of their heads and back into their bodies.
My work is hands-on, heart-led, and deeply rooted in your nervous system, because healing isn’t about talking it out endlessly. It’s about feeling safe enough in your body to begin releasing what’s been weighing you down.
This Isn’t About Fixing You — You’re Not Broken
You don’t need another person telling you to communicate better or light candles in the bedroom. You need someone who actually gets it. Someone who sees you, the version of you who’s tired, but also that women who’s done pretending, who wants more but doesn’t know how to ask.
As a female sex coach, I help women just like you heal from years of disconnect, shame, overwhelm, and shutdown. Together, we create a space where:
- Your desires are heard
- Your boundaries are respected
- Your pleasure is prioritized
- And your divine feminine energy feels safe enough to rise
If you’re married, divorced, single, exploring, healing, or completely unsure, this work meets you right where you are.
No pressure. No judgment. No fixing. Just total brutal honesty, tenderness, and transformation.
What Does a Sex Coach in Castle Rock Do?
Great question. And honestly, there are a lot of misconceptions out there.
Sex coaching is about reigniting the parts of yourself you may have shamed in the past and working through how you can make intimacy with your partner feel more accessible and exciting.
I help you get the life you want, including the sex life you’ve fantasized about in the following ways:.
- Reconnect with the parts of your body you’ve ignored, shamed, or silenced
- Explore what truly turns you on (not what you’ve been told should turn you on)
- Unravel patterns like obligation sex, emotional shutdown, or avoidance
- Reignite connection with yourself or your partner(s)
- Understanding your needs and identifying your core desires
- Learn to communicate your needs with clarity and confidence
- Heal past experiences, including trauma, infidelity, or religious shame without reliving them
How Does Sex Coaching in Castle Rock Work?
Every session is customized around you.
This isn’t one-size-fits-all, and I don’t follow a script. If we’re working together, it means we’ve already met and you have been selected to enter my program because I believe I can help you and we start by building trust. You will receive a RxT or a personalized prescription for transformation from me and I’ve mapped out the pace and path that feels right for your body in advance.
Our sessions may include:
- Guided breathwork, grounding, and resourcing
- Somatic touch or co-regulation practices (always based on consent)
- Somatic EMDR (a trauma-integrative technique that doesn’t re-traumatize)
- Movement, erotic dance classes, sound sessions, or emotional release tools for building confidence, growing intimacy, identifying your erotic identity, and gaining embodied self-worth
I see women in my private home office in Castle Rock, in an office space in Denver or in the privacy of their own homes around Castle Rock, Parker, Aurora or Denver. The work we do is deeply personal and a distraction free, private environment is necessary to release your full self expression.
Why Work With a Female Sex Coach?
As a woman I understand the insecurities women face in the modern world. From not feeling like you are enough to feeling, “out of your body”, or “out of our mind” to stressing about relationships, your job or kids and reigniting true intimacy with your self first and ultimately with your partner(s).
I believe every woman deserves to feel sexy, safe, and wildly herself in the bedroom and out in the world, no exceptions.
What Areas in Castle Rock Do You Serve
I see women in my private home office in Castle Rock, (in an office space in Denver) or in the privacy of your home in and around Castle Rock, (including Highlands Ranch and Larkspur). I am personally available to women in the following regions in Castle Rock:
- The Meadows
- Castle Pines Village
- Crystal Valley Ranch
- Founders Village
- Castlewood Ranch
- Downtown Castle Rock
- Red Hawk
- Plum Creek
- Terrain
- Cobblestone Ranch
- Sapphire Pointe
Who is Sex Coaching in Castle Rock For?
This work isn’t for everyone. I only take on clients who are truly ready to show up for themselves, even if they don’t have all the answers yet.
If you’ve been asking yourself:
- Why do I feel lonely even though I am in a relationship?
- Why can’t I appreciate the small things anymore?
- What’s up with my body, things just don’t feel or look the same anymore after kids and it’s driving me crazy. How do I even look and feel sexy any more?
- Why isn’t my husband attracted to me anymore?
- I want to explore being with other women, but where do I start?
- I think I might be questioning if I am straight or a lesbian, but how do I know?
- Why do I feel disconnected from my body and/or my partner?
- Where did my sex drive go?
- What do I even like anymore?
- Why am I always too tired to even think about sex?
- Why do I keep shutting down when it’s time for intimacy?
- Am I allowed to want more?
- Is there anything better than this?
- Will I ever get over this affair?
- We want to open up our marriage but what does that life look like?
…then I invite you to take the next step.
Get Support in the Bedroom From Born to Be Wild Lifestyle
If you’re still wondering, “Is there a female sex coach in Castle Rock?”, let me say this, I’m right here.
You don’t need to wait until you feel “ready.” You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need to carry it all by yourself anymore. If you’ve been living in your head, feeling insecure about your sex life, your marriage or are completely turned off by our partner these days, aching for wild connection with your partner or husband, or just want more joy in your life and to feel alive in your body, this is your beginning!
Apply for a FREE consultation today. Let’s awaken the version of yourself that already lives inside, confident, sexy, grounded, and free.
Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly does a female sex coach help with?
A female sex coach helps you feel safe in your body again, reconnect with your desires, and explore intimacy without shame. This work supports you through low libido, emotional numbness, past trauma, communication struggles, and more. It meets you where you are and gently guides you back to pleasure.
Is sex coaching the same as therapy?
No. Sex coaching isn’t therapy. It’s not about diagnoses or treatment plans. It’s not about pharmaceuticals either. It’s real, relational, embodied, and centered around what your body is ready to release or receive holistically. We don’t just talk about change, we create space for it to happen through your body. Then we practice together in real life.
Can sex coaching help if I have no libido?
Yes, libido doesn’t disappear by accident. Stress, disconnection, resentment from compromising, or trauma often shut things down. Through nervous system work, somatic tools, and deep care, we uncover what’s been buried underneath the “I don’t want to.” From there, we gently rebuild what feels good and true for you. I even have a dedicated network of holistic practitioners in my back pocket that are trusted if you need a referral for additional libido services to support your growth and progress in naturopathic ways.
What happens during a coaching session?
Every session is different, because every woman is different. Healing and growing is not linear. We go at your pace. This might include breathwork, emotional release, co-regulation, somatic sex coaching with consensual touch or even EMDR if you have trauma or overwhelm to work through first.. You’ll never be pushed. You’ll be supported, held, and gently guided to explore what your body already knows it needs.
Do I have to be in a relationship to work with you?
No. This work begins with your relationship to yourself. If you’re single, partnered, healing from a breakup or divorce, or not sure what you want, you’re welcome here. When you feel safe in your own body, the rest begins to shift, including how you love and who you invite in.
