Why You Want Her

Empowered, confident and embodied women

live with greater purpose and experience more love.

I approach coaching with empathy, vulnerability and an open mind. My body centered somatic resources and calm nervous system puts others at ease. This allows an intimate connection to form between us. As trust builds, collaboration occurs towards healing my clients inner wounds and transitioning them to a place of confidence & unconditional self-acceptance. This is when full erotic expression, core desires are found and embodied pleasure can be reached in my client’s lives.

I am gifted at connecting vulnerably with people experiencing and/or exploring:

  • Affair | Infidelity
  • Alternative Lifestyles (open, poly, CNM)
  • Anxiety | Stress
  • Anorgasmia
  • Anhedonia
  • Body Image & Esteem
  • Bisexuality
  • Confidence
  • Communication Barriers
  • Disassociation | Loss of Connection
  • Discrepancies in Partnered Desire
  • Dating | Apps
  • Family Conflict
  • Fetish Exploration and Normalization
  • Gender Identity | Sexual Expression
  • Infertility
  • Kink | BDSM Introduction
  • Low Sex Drive | Libido or Desire
  • Normalizing Sex & Pornography “Addiction”
  • Painful Intercourse & Vaginismus
  • Parenting | Co-Parenting
  • Professional | Pleasure Balance
  • Long Term Relationships
  • Shame
  • STI | Sexually Transmitted Diseases
  • Sex Education
  • Trauma | Overwhelm

Podcasts

Healing Hooker Podcast
Avail on Spotify
Skirt Club Diaries
Avail on Spotify

Credentials

Certified Somatic EMDR Practitioner | Embody Lab 2025

Reclaiming Pleasure Workshop with Kai Cheng Thom | Embody Lab 2024

Biology of Trauma: Applications of Functional Medicine & Healing | Dr. Aimie Apigian | Embody Lab 2024

Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) | PESI 2024

Disorganized Attachment | Diane Poole Heller | Trauma Solutions 2023

Yoga as Neurobiological Therapeutic Modality | Polyvagal Theory SEI 2022

Certified Sexologist | American Board of Sexology 2021

Advanced Somatica Institute Graduate 2021

Somatica Undergraduate 2020

Professional Intimate Event Consultant 2020

Certified Hospitality Sales Professional (CHSP) 2017

Certified Wedding Planner (CWP) 2014

Hospitality Tourism & Event Management | BA 2010

Professional Memberships

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Purpose

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle exists to help women and couples heal from trauma, improve their relationships, and embrace their sexuality with confidence. The business achieves this by offering somatic, trauma-informed sex & relationship coaching, educational & intimate workshops, and collaborative programs designed to create a safe and empowering space for personal transformation.

Core Values

  • Empowerment – Encouraging clients to embrace their sexuality, heal from trauma, and gain confidence from their private to professional lives.
  • Compassion – Creating a non-judgmental and empathetic space for personal growth.
  • Authenticity – Promoting genuine self-expression and unconditional self-acceptance.
  • Education – Providing science-based coaching and workshops to enhance awareness and knowledge.
  • Inclusivity – Supporting vulva owners with a variety of sexual orientations and relationship styles.
  • Healing & Growth – Guiding clients through personal transformation using holistic and somatic approaches.
  • Collaboration – Partnering with aligned organizations to promote holistic well-being.
  • Pleasure-Centered Living – Encouraging clients to prioritize joy, intimacy, and personal fulfillment.
  • Advocacy – Promoting mental health awareness and breaking societal stigmas around sexuality and relationships.

“We create a welcoming, judgment-free space for straight, bisexual, and curious women—along with their partners—to explore their desires, strengthen their relationships, and heal through embodied experiences. Our approach is rooted in empathy, education, and open-mindedness, ensuring every client feels seen, valued, and supported in their personal journey.”

Mission

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle is a women-owned, female centered practice dedicated to empowering straight, bisexual, and curious women—along with their partners—to heal from trauma or overwhelm, deepen intimacy, and embrace pleasure-centered living.

Through body-based experiences as a somatic practitioner, we believe in science-backed therapeutic modalities, to help clients first reconnect with themselves and then incorporate their most valuable relationships.

We partner with holistic health practitioners, primary care clinics, and aligned organizations to provide inclusive, evidence-based support that nurtures mental, emotional, and sexual well-being. Our mission is to create a safe, judgment-free space where self-discovery, embodied confidence, and authentic connection can flourish. 

Vision

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle envisions a world where women—along with their partners—feel empowered to heal, connect, and embrace their unique, authentic, pleasure-centered lives. 

By offering expert trauma-informed somatic & EMDR coaching, educational resources, immersive workshops, and a supportive community, we cultivate a space where acceptance, vulnerability, and embodied confidence thrives—helping individuals break free from shame, rediscover desire, and build deeply fulfilling relationships.

About The Founder

Dovie Gena is a professional intimate event consultant with 15+ years of experience planning complex events and luxury experiences from 50 to 3000+ guests. Her education is rooted in body based sexual health & wellness and comprehensive trauma informed care. Her foundation is built on one of hospitality and she is widely respected as a sales & marketing expert .

Previously as an LGBTQ Certified Wedding Planner & Professional Consultant, she went on to further her expertise in Sexual Health & Wellness. Hence, why this company energizes the community through savvy, educational and sexy meetings & intimate live events. She’s prepared to assist the sex positive events community with their needs in a professional, safe, ethical and consensual manner.

She continued her personal journey towards growth and sexual exploration in private, always wondering how to bridge the gap and live her truth. Coaching people on how to better understand themselves, their sexuality, have mind blowing sex and authentic relationships both inspired and motivated her to get certified with American Board of Sexology at the Somatica Institute and launch the company she always dreamed of. Ultimately, she designed a unique career path for herself by merging heart centered care & compassion for women, with her love of psychology and how the body holds wisdom, with a deep understanding of sexuality. She then wrapped it into the landscape of events to inspire others to learn and grow in a safe and non-judgmental experience.

While Dovie is a somatic practitioner with her clients, she remains actively involved in business development and sex positive marketing; consulting for well recognized international companies, including planning professional ethical intimate workshops, retreats and events.

She believes in the power of the human connection. There is no shame in being who you are. She practices contributing more to the community than what she is taking.

“The virtue of a great soul is one that cares for the whole universe through the ties of humanity” -Loise deJaucourt