Why You Want Her

Reveal the objects of your desire to me and I’ll show you

the essence of your erotic identity and true aspirations.

I approach coaching with empathy, vulnerability and an open mind. My body centered somatic resources and calm nervous system puts others at ease. This allows an intimate connection to form between us. As trust builds, collaboration occurs towards healing my clients inner wounds and transitioning them to a place of confidence & unconditional self-acceptance. This is when full erotic expression, core desires are found and embodied pleasure can be reached in my client’s lives.

I am gifted at connecting vulnerably with people experiencing and/or exploring:

  • Alternative Lifestyles (open, poly, CNM, ENM)
  • Anxiety | Stress
  • Affair | Infidelity
  • Body Image & Esteem
  • Bisexuality
  • Confidence
  • Communication Barriers
  • Disassociation | Loss of Connection
  • Discrepancies in Partnered Desire
  • Dating | Apps
  • Family Conflict
  • Fetish Exploration and Normalization
  • Gender Identity | Sexual Expression
  • Infertility
  • Anorgasmia
  • Kink | BDSM Introduction
  • Low Sex Drive | Libido or Desire
  • Normalizing Sex & Pornography “Addiction”
  • Painful Intercourse & Vaginismus
  • Parenting | Co-Parenting
  • Professional | Pleasure Balance
  • Long Term Relationships
  • Shame
  • STI | Sexually Transmitted Diseases
  • Sex Education
  • Trauma

Podcasts

Credentials

Reclaiming Pleasure Workshop with Kai Cheng Thom | Embody Lab 2024

Biology of Trauma: Applications of Functional Medicine & Healing | Dr. Aimie Apigian | Embody Lab 2024

Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) | PESI 2024

Disorganized Attachment | Diane Poole Heller | Trauma Solutions 2023

Yoga as Neurobiological Therapeutic Modality | Polyvagal Theory SEI 2022

Certified Sexologist | American Board of Sexology 2021

Advanced Somatica Institute Graduate 2021

Somatica Undergraduate 2020

Professional Intimate Event Consultant 2020

Certified Hospitality Sales Professional (CHSP) 2017

Certified Wedding Planner (CWP) 2014

Hospitality Tourism & Event Management | BA 2010

Details

Dovie earned a degree in Hospitality, Tourism and Event Management, BA. She went on to become an LGBTQ positive CWP – Certified Wedding Planner & CHSP – Certified Hospitality Sales Professional.

Her experience producing large scale luxury corporate meetings, incentive trips & high-end boutique events still left her unfulfilled. She continued her personal journey towards growth and sexual exploration in private, always wondering how to bridge the gap and live her truth. Coaching people on how to better understand themselves, their sexuality, have mind blowing sex and authentic relationships both inspired and motivated her to get certified with American Board of Sexology at the Somatica Institute and launch the company she always dreamed of and ultimately change career paths. While Dovie coaches clients, she is also actively involved in business development and sex positive marketing; consulting for well recognized international companies, including planning professional ethical intimate workshops, retreats and events.


About Her Mission

We are a women owned business and lifestyle forum advocating for and encouraging women and couples towards sex positivity in today’s society by de-stigmatizing alternative lifestyles and sex. Our primary objective is to inspire others to live an authentic and pleasure centered life.

We aspire to accomplish this goal by sharing our somatic sex and relationship coaching tools, professional intimate event experience and hospitality consulting skills combined with personal experiences within communities through consultation, blog posts, education, invigorating tips & tricks and bodily health/wellness suggestions. We aim to continue building an environment where acceptance, love through vulnerability and genuine empathy thrives.

She believes many carry the illusion of knowledge surrounding sex and relationship expectations, from what’s been planted in our minds and cultivated through culture from over 11,000 years ago. Something rooted deep in our social, economic and ethnic heritages, that is more than arduous to dig it out.

About Her Vision

We believe in the power of the human connection. There is no shame in being who you are. We believe in contributing more to the community than what we are taking. Born to Be Wild Lifestyle intends to strengthen and empower people living with a range of sexual health and wellness concerns towards a more sex positive lifestyle, regardless of what they need to have their core desires met and experience deep acceptance.

Dovie Gena is a professional intimate event consultant with 15+ years of experience planning social, corporate and non-profit events from 50 to 3000+ guests. Her education is rooted in body based sexuality coaching and her foundation is rooted in hospitality with a degree in Hospitality Tourism & Event Management. Hence, why her company plans and energize this community through savvy, educational and sexy meetings & intimate live events. She’s prepared to assist the sex positive events community with their needs in a professional, safe, ethical and consensual setting.

Limerance – A floaty, manic, excited, feeling that often arises after meeting or spending time with someone who you are recently attracted to. Also, a fluttering heart, or butterfly’s in the stomach are symptoms of the feeling. It is similar to infatuation except that it lingers, is usually less lusty and does not have the same negative connotation. Also is usually a temporary state, unlike love. Often thoughts of the person are deep and engaging, resulting in day dreaming. The word was originally founded by a Psychologist in the 1970s. The fact that this word not in the traditional dictionary baffles me.