Why You Want Her

Empowered, confident and embodied women

live with greater purpose and experience more love.

I approach coaching with empathy, vulnerability and an open mind. My body centered somatic resources and calm nervous system puts others at ease. This allows an intimate connection to form between us. As trust builds, collaboration occurs towards healing my clients inner wounds and transitioning them to a place of confidence & unconditional self-acceptance. This is when full erotic expression, core desires are found and embodied pleasure can be reached in my client’s lives.

I am gifted at connecting vulnerably with people experiencing and/or exploring:

  • Affair | Infidelity
  • Alternative Lifestyles (open, poly, CNM)
  • Anxiety | Stress
  • Anorgasmia
  • Anhedonia
  • Body Image & Esteem
  • Bisexuality
  • Confidence
  • Communication Barriers
  • Disassociation | Loss of Connection
  • Discrepancies in Partnered Desire
  • Dating | Apps
  • Family Conflict
  • Fetish Exploration and Normalization
  • Gender Identity | Sexual Expression
  • Infertility
  • Kink | BDSM Introduction
  • Low Sex Drive | Libido or Desire
  • Normalizing Sex & Pornography “Addiction”
  • Painful Intercourse & Vaginismus
  • Parenting | Co-Parenting
  • Professional | Pleasure Balance
  • Long Term Relationships
  • Shame
  • STI | Sexually Transmitted Diseases
  • Sex Education
  • Trauma | Overwhelm

Podcasts

Healing Hooker Podcast
Avail on Apple Podcasts
Skirt Club Diaries
Avail on Spotify

Credentials

Certified Somatic EMDR Practitioner | Embody Lab 2025

Reclaiming Pleasure Workshop with Kai Cheng Thom | Embody Lab 2024

Biology of Trauma: Applications of Functional Medicine & Healing | Dr. Aimie Apigian | Embody Lab 2024

Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) | PESI 2024

Disorganized Attachment | Diane Poole Heller | Trauma Solutions 2023

Yoga as Neurobiological Therapeutic Modality | Polyvagal Theory SEI 2022

Certified Sexologist | American Board of Sexology 2021

Advanced Somatica Institute Graduate 2021

Somatica Undergraduate 2020

Professional Intimate Event Consultant 2020

Certified Hospitality Sales Professional (CHSP) 2017

Certified Wedding Planner (CWP) 2014

Hospitality Tourism & Event Management | BA 2010

Professional Memberships

  • SEI | Somatic Experiencing Intl
  • USABP
  • Alternative Balance
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Purpose

**Our purpose is to help women feel more love and live with greater purpose.**

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle exists to help women and couples heal from trauma, improve their relationships, and embrace their sexuality with confidence. The business achieves this by offering somatic, trauma-informed sex & relationship coaching, educational & intimate workshops, and collaborative programs designed to create a safe and empowering space for personal transformation.

Core Values

  • Empowerment – Encouraging clients to embrace their sexuality, build resiliency around trauma, and gain confidence from their private to professional lives.
  • Authenticity – Promoting genuine self-expression and unconditional self-acceptance.
  • Education – Providing science-based modalities and workshops to enhance awareness and knowledge.
  • Compassionate Healing – Creating a non-judgmental and empathetic space to guide clients through personal transformation using holistic and somatic approaches .
  • Collaborative Advocacy – Partnering with aligned organizations to promote holistic well-being and mental health awareness. We break societal stigmas around sexuality and relationships.
  • Pleasure-Centered Living – Encouraging clients to prioritize joy, intimacy, and personal fulfillment.

“We create a welcoming, open minded space for straight, bisexual, and inquisitive women—along with their partners—to explore their desires, strengthen their relationships, and heal through embodied experiences. Our approach ensures every client feels seen, valued, and supported in their personal journey.”

Mission

 “Connecting mind, body & spirit to your unique worth through sexuality.”

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle is a women-owned, female centered practice on a mission to guide society towards healing trauma or overwhelm, deepen intimacy and to embrace pleasure-centered living, -one body at time, one family at a time, one community at a time.

Through body-based experiences as a somatic practitioner, we believe in science-backed therapeutic modalities, to help clients first reconnect with themselves and then incorporate their most valuable relationships.

We partner with holistic health practitioners, primary care clinics, and aligned organizations to provide inclusive, evidence-based support that nurtures mental, emotional, and sexual well-being. Our mission is to create a safe, judgment-free space where self-discovery, embodied confidence, and authentic connection can flourish. 

Vision

Born to Be Wild Lifestyle envisions a world where women—along with their partners—feel empowered to heal, connect, and embrace their unique, authentic, pleasure-centered lives. 

By offering expert trauma-informed somatic & EMDR coaching, educational resources, immersive workshops, and a supportive community, we cultivate a space where acceptance, vulnerability, and embodied confidence thrives—helping individuals break free from shame, rediscover desire, and build deeply fulfilling relationships.

About The Founder

Dovie Gena is a powerhouse in the world of sex-positive transformation, blending 15+ years of luxury event expertise with comprehensive trauma-informed, somatic sex and relationship coaching. As the founder of Born to Be Wild Lifestyle, she helps women and couples heal, connect, and reclaim their pleasure through immersive experiences that are as safe as they are empowering. With certifications from the Somatica Institute, awarded by the American Board of Sexology and Certified in EMDR through the Embody Lab, Dovie merges deep psychological insight with her passion for authentic connection—creating spaces where growth, healing, and unapologetic sexuality thrive.

Her early education was built on hospitality and she is widely respected as a sales & marketing expert in a variety of industries including holding a position as a LGBTQ Certified Wedding Planner. She’s continues to assist the sex positive events community with their needs in a professional, safe, ethical and consensual manner. Personally, her journey towards inner spiritual growth and sexual exploration in her private life, always left her wondering how to bridge the gap and live her truth.

Coaching people on how to better understand themselves, their sexuality, have mind blowing sex and authentic relationships both inspired and motivated her to launch the company she always dreamed of. Ultimately, she designed a unique career path for herself by merging heart centered care & compassion for women, with her love of psychology and how the body holds wisdom, with a deep understanding of sexuality. She wraps it into the landscape of events to inspire others to learn and grow in a safe and non-judgmental experience.

While Dovie is a somatic practitioner with her clients, she remains actively involved in business development and sex positive marketing; consulting for well recognized international companies, including planning professional ethical intimate workshops, retreats and events.

She believes in the power of the human connection. There is no shame in being who you are. She practices contributing more to the community than what she is taking.

“The virtue of a great soul is one that cares for the whole universe through the ties of humanity” -Loise deJaucourt